Signs He Does Love You Followed By Signs He Does Not Love You

When you meet what you think is the love of your life, you invest a lot of time into him, your entire heart is devoted to him, you are head over feet in love with this guy. You feel it in your heart, this is the one you want to spend the rest of your life with. You want to be with him now and forever. Does that hit the right note? Well, are you sitting there wondering if he’s as much in love with you as you are with him? Is he into you or just not into you? Let’s take a look and see and please make sure you read the very end of this article because I feel that is something you need to know …

Here are some real signs that he loves you :

Consistent Effort: He puts thought into doing things with you. He regularly makes time for you and it is obvious that he prioritizes your relationship.

Emotional Support: He is there for you during tough times in your life and it is obvious that he genuinely cares about your well-being. When you are at your lowest times in life, he doesn’t pick at it and call you weak, instead, he tells you to sit down, have a seat and helps talk the problem out.

Respect and Understanding: He listens to you, values your opinions, and respects your boundaries. It is obvious that he enjoys talking to you.

Acts of Kindness: He shows love through thoughtful gestures, both big and small.

Future Plans: He includes you in his future, indicating he sees a long-term relationship with you and in my opinion, this is a good thing.

Signs He’s Just Not Into You

Now that we have taken a look of the signs he loves you, let’s look at signs he may not love you …

Signs He Doesn’t (or May Not)Love You

Lack of Effort: It is completely obvios that he doesn’t make time for you or prioritize your relationship.

Poor Communication: He avoids meaningful conversations and doesn’t listen to you. It’s almost as if he completely avoids talking to you.

Disrespect: He dismisses your feelings, opinions, or boundaries. Only respects your opinions as long as they are the same opinions as his.

No Future Plans: He doesn’t include you in his future or talk about long-term goals.

Emotional Distance: He is emotionally unavailable or indifferent toward your needs.

The behavior above may suggest a lack of genuine love or commitment in the relationship.

Now, hold on a minute, if your man matches the above signs that say he does not love you, don’t jump right in there and think that it is clear that he does not love you. Just stop those thoughts. Sometimes, a guy will love you, but these signs I have listed above will show through and the reason the signs are there have nothing to do with you, it’s just because he is not “normal” in the mind. We got to stop analyzing every single thing and realize that we are all humans, some of us have different ways of showing love than the ones next to us does.

Now, let me talk to you for a second, one on one …

If deep down, you feel that he loves you, he wakes up and says good morning to you, he acknowledges that you exist in his life, and he says “I love you” than thet is all you need to know, there is no lines that need to be red between, he either loves you or he doesn’t love you, it’s just something our human minds will know. So let me ask you, do you think he loves you?

These behaviors typically indicate genuine affection and commitment.